Special Mothers
Mothers of children with special needs are truly exceptional. I encounter them every day at Sensory Space. While they are all unique, they all deserve the title of “special,” and here’s why:
1. Many are highly educated, particularly in fields like occupational therapy, sensory integration, speech and language therapy, physiotherapy, teaching, special needs assistance, nursing, nutrition, behaviour, play therapy, and more. Often, they find themselves playing multiple roles for their children and, at times, forget to be just mothers.
2. Most have two go-to hairstyles: short or in a ponytail. These styles are easy to manage and require minimal time, a precious resource for these mothers.
3. Full-time employment is often a luxury, as their children require constant care. Even when the kids are at school, these special moms remain vigilant, constantly checking their phones to ensure they won’t miss any calls in case their child is having a challenging day.
4. Keeping a notebook is a common practice, filled with dates and times for numerous appointments. The fear of missing something important drives this meticulous organisation.
5. In a toy store, you’ll likely find them browsing the educational or sensory toys section.
6. While they desire to spend weekends out with their spouses or friends, they often choose to stay home, concerned that others may not understand their children’s needs. Even when they do go out, relaxation is elusive as their minds are preoccupied with thoughts about their children’s well-being.
7. Their social circles may have diminished as time constraints and their child’s anxiety make regular socialising challenging.
8. While their friends celebrate milestones on social media, special mothers quietly worry about the future. Will their children lead independent lives? Make friends? Find employment?
9. Despite facing immense challenges, they often claim they’re okay and don’t need help, believing they can handle their problems independently.
10. When asked about their free time, they pause and then confess with a smile, “I just stare at the wall for an hour and enjoy the peace.”
11. Their happiest day is rarely a grand event but often the moment their child utters “MUMMY” for the first time, regardless of when it happens. It’s a moment cherished forever.
12. Special mothers are incredible; they sacrifice everything for their loved ones. They are the earthly angels who deserve love, appreciation, and respect, especially from themselves.
Dear Mothers, have a wonderful Mother’s Day!
Agne